Comments on: About to get a little more personal…

By: chaigyaru ギャル

chaigyaru ギャル — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 00:29:37 +0000

hope you get into UNSW!

i’m not too sure which dimsim place you’re speaking of? as i have not mentioned any dimsim places on my blog? i’d love to help =X

my hair is home dyed. i recently dyed it down to a level 5. thanks!

By: Cee

Cee — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 21:44:08 +0000

Hey girl, greetings from Michigan. I am awaiting for my acceptance letter if I am able to study abroad in UNSW in a couple months. I’d be leaving in June for AU if i make it! I was wondering where is that dimsum place is at, because I love dimsum, and I need to like, scope out all the dimsum places in sydney. Also, may I ask what color your hair is? And how you got it? I am looking for that shade but a little more deeper red. Thanks yo <3

By: Jenny

Jenny — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 20:09:32 +0000

Oh wow. I sort of thought you were a girl with lots of friends, you know, always seeking new pals or something! But it’s refreshing to hear how you approach friendships. Probably because it relates closely to my experiences. With getting burned by “bad relationships” in a way. I’m the same. I’m not “fake” with new people I meet I’m just not very “open” to them too, about my deeper self. So i don’t forge many meaningful friendships these days~ Not many un-meaningful ones either though (LOL)

By: Joey

Joey — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 11:08:45 +0000

i understand what all of you mean. you try enough times to know that you hardly get to meet someone WORTH meeting. they’re either too immature, or have no common interests with you.
but the thing is, over time ive come to realised that im being way too judgemental and every person is a story. we’re like onions (if youve seen shrek you’ll know what i mean) and we’ve got layers. what you see on the outside isnt what they are on the inside. and you kinda have to make the effort to really know what someone is truly like. thats how i met my best friend and to be honest i wasnt really her biggest fan when i first met her.
please dont give up. nice, genuine people are out there. =)

By: BowsNHearts

BowsNHearts — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 04:10:35 +0000

I am really closed up like you as well. I have been in Melbourne for 6 years and every weekend, I still cannot find someone who I can just ring up to go shopping with. Usually I just go by myself.

I am not sure why…but I have always thought that having no friends is better than having a bunch of friends I don’t get along particularly well with. It drains my energy if I have to be ‘on’ all the time around acquaintances. Every now and then is fine but everyday is not.

By: chaigyaru ギャル

chaigyaru ギャル — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 00:41:55 +0000

im so glad everyone here left me such deep and meaningful messages. i feel so happy that im not alone! :)
i really wish you guys were here in sydney with me, then we could all make true friends, rather than with those we don’t want to be true friends with.

By: Nana

Nana — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 12:28:54 +0000

i understand you!!
when i make friends with a lot of people right away i usually learn months and months after that they are psychos, backstabbers, shit talkers…
and it’s like, i have already been friends with them for a year so…
you can’t change your mind after that point!
i just learned that people hate you for no reason because they’re jealous -__-
that’s why i have become picky with friends at least xD

By: mars

mars — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 11:07:25 +0000

I totally understand this. I find it really hard to get close with anyone I haven’t known for yeas and trust enough to talk about things that really matter in my life. Everyone says I’m friendly and easy to get along with at first until they realize at some point that things seem to be on ‘surface’ level and that I don’t like to talk O_O

But I’ve learned that that this is not a bad thing at all since I don’t want to have many fairweather friends who are just out to compare their lives with mine. I like meeting new people and getting to know them but close up really quickly when I find a little something of them that reminds me of a bad experience I might have had in the past. Some may say that is being too picky and judgmental of strangers but it’s just a part of me that has always been this way. Besides, I don’t like doing trial and error anything. “Prevention is better than cure” is how I roll XD

By: sarah

sarah — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 07:07:28 +0000

i’m super duper picky with people i socialize with too! it’s made it hard for me to make friends in college and now i have 6-8 months left and hardly have any friends up here. sucks because my field is very people related.. i have to get along with people and talk to people and put up with people. oh well, at least i’m not in customer service or something horrendous like that xD hahaa. and it’s good to be picky with people.. you don’t want the wrong people in your life, because the wrong people can totally CHANGE your life.. EFF it up if you know what i mean!

By: Magdalena

Magdalena — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 06:53:37 +0000

Is not hard to understand you because I’m, basicly as you. I don’t get close just with everyone as easy some people do or talk with them much and for this reason most people think i’m closed person, which is not exactly like that. I just don’t allow everyone to get personal with me (and sometimes i wish i was not like that but is just the way i am). I just prefer to be close with people on who i can really trust than just to pretend i’m close with everyone and to talk about personal things with them because I know a lot of people who would look that are very close, hang out together and etc. but the truth is that they are hypocrites and in the next moment they would talk bad behind their back or would call them only when they need help or something. And i can say i have become may times disappointed from people who i have though for friends, so i think that my character is like this because of this as you said about yourself.